Comments on: Slander defined http://jaymekohler.com/blog/2009/05/18/slander-defined/ Writer. Cyclist. Marine. Mon, 30 Jan 2012 14:44:10 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: missy http://jaymekohler.com/blog/2009/05/18/slander-defined/#comment-1633 missy Sun, 30 Jan 2011 22:40:11 +0000 http://www.jaymekohler.com/?p=957#comment-1633 I know I'm a little late to jump on the bandwagon here, but going to anyway. I personally spoke to Baby's Momma during the entire pregnancy, AND Baby's "selected" Daddy. Most of you that are responding are forming an opinion from the blogs rather than hearing the info first hand. Baby's "selected" Daddy is a good man with a great heart, a very grown up man. Baby's Momma was looking for someone to take care of her, not so grown up.... I know I’m a little late to jump on the bandwagon here, but going to anyway. I personally spoke to Baby’s Momma during the entire pregnancy, AND Baby’s “selected” Daddy. Most of you that are responding are forming an opinion from the blogs rather than hearing the info first hand. Baby’s “selected” Daddy is a good man with a great heart, a very grown up man. Baby’s Momma was looking for someone to take care of her, not so grown up….

]]> By: not babys mama http://jaymekohler.com/blog/2009/05/18/slander-defined/#comment-499 not babys mama Thu, 06 Aug 2009 03:01:43 +0000 http://www.jaymekohler.com/?p=957#comment-499 I take care of my daughter so everyone knows this and no one makes any assumptions..I work part time and go to school full time now to make a better life for her. My parents do babysit from time to time. I handle my own responsiblilites and take care of my daughter by myself! I enjoy every moment I have with my daughter! Life is short and she is growing up fast. Except for a small medical problem that isnt life-threatening, so far, she is in great health. Her dad is not really involved; he has seen her 3 days total since she was born on Jan 19th, 2009. It hurts b/c I had a great relationship w/ my father and i can only hope she will eventually! As for the whole drama about who the daddy was..I have now determined that no due date I was given put her real dad as being in the picture and that after talking with her dad we actually discovered she was born 3 weeks early. What happened b/w Jayme and I was a confused, unfortunate, emotional mess. Do I wish things would have turned out differently..Yes! God has his plan and I have to believe in it and accept it! I do believe that Jayme was right about one thing..Women are emotional and men are more logical! That being said when these post came about I did feel attacked and hurt b/c of the personal nature of the incident. Now, although I still have opinions and do not agree with it he has a right to express how he feels and get his anger out. I have moved on to a happy life with my daughter! I do still wish that he wanted to be in her life and the invitation is always open to him, he knows how to contact me! She is what is important and I hope that one day she does not find these posts and think differently of Jayme. She will know about him and how he was there for her when it mattered and she will have the pictures of him and her together. If she chooses to contact him I will give her his info. I think she deserves to know the one man that truely loved her as a daughter..Jayme Kohler! I loved him, I hurt him, I lost him and I may never get him back even as a friend but that is my pain, no one else's! I take care of my daughter so everyone knows this and no one makes any assumptions..I work part time and go to school full time now to make a better life for her. My parents do babysit from time to time. I handle my own responsiblilites and take care of my daughter by myself! I enjoy every moment I have with my daughter! Life is short and she is growing up fast. Except for a small medical problem that isnt life-threatening, so far, she is in great health. Her dad is not really involved; he has seen her 3 days total since she was born on Jan 19th, 2009. It hurts b/c I had a great relationship w/ my father and i can only hope she will eventually!

As for the whole drama about who the daddy was..I have now determined that no due date I was given put her real dad as being in the picture and that after talking with her dad we actually discovered she was born 3 weeks early. What happened b/w Jayme and I was a confused, unfortunate, emotional mess. Do I wish things would have turned out differently..Yes! God has his plan and I have to believe in it and accept it! I do believe that Jayme was right about one thing..Women are emotional and men are more logical! That being said when these post came about I did feel attacked and hurt b/c of the personal nature of the incident. Now, although I still have opinions and do not agree with it he has a right to express how he feels and get his anger out. I have moved on to a happy life with my daughter! I do still wish that he wanted to be in her life and the invitation is always open to him, he knows how to contact me! She is what is important and I hope that one day she does not find these posts and think differently of Jayme. She will know about him and how he was there for her when it mattered and she will have the pictures of him and her together. If she chooses to contact him I will give her his info. I think she deserves to know the one man that truely loved her as a daughter..Jayme Kohler! I loved him, I hurt him, I lost him and I may never get him back even as a friend but that is my pain, no one else’s!

]]> By: Jayme http://jaymekohler.com/blog/2009/05/18/slander-defined/#comment-498 Jayme Mon, 29 Jun 2009 04:58:37 +0000 http://www.jaymekohler.com/?p=957#comment-498 The child is fine. Mommy's folks were doing most of the rearing anyways. The child is fine. Mommy’s folks were doing most of the rearing anyways.

]]> By: Jayme http://jaymekohler.com/blog/2009/05/18/slander-defined/#comment-497 Jayme Mon, 29 Jun 2009 04:57:50 +0000 http://www.jaymekohler.com/?p=957#comment-497 HA! That's means you read the the original post? Priceless! HA! That’s means you read the the original post? Priceless!

]]> By: Jennifer http://jaymekohler.com/blog/2009/05/18/slander-defined/#comment-496 Jennifer Sun, 28 Jun 2009 15:34:54 +0000 http://www.jaymekohler.com/?p=957#comment-496 ...bang away, everybody...bang away. …bang away, everybody…bang away.

]]> By: Jennifer http://jaymekohler.com/blog/2009/05/18/slander-defined/#comment-495 Jennifer Sun, 28 Jun 2009 15:22:57 +0000 http://www.jaymekohler.com/?p=957#comment-495 wow. in all of this....what about the child? the whole thing sickens me. wow.

in all of this….what about the child?

the whole thing sickens me.

]]> By: Robert W http://jaymekohler.com/blog/2009/05/18/slander-defined/#comment-494 Robert W Sat, 06 Jun 2009 03:09:10 +0000 http://www.jaymekohler.com/?p=957#comment-494 Wow, This whole situation is a crap shoot. Everyone will have opinions on how to fix this but trying to be a dual father in her life at this time will not work. I remember when my son was born. It was the most emotional, mindblowing and breathtaking experience I have ever known. I too didn't want to let him go. I was constantly trying to be around, help even when I couldn't feed him (parts not included) The point is that Jayme was part of this mind blowing experience, something completely different then what he has experienced in the middle east. This will take months, if not years to get over due to the raw emotional connection he developed. Semper Fi Marine Remember the good ol days when First Sergeant yelled... "Kohler..." "Yes First Sergeant..." "Is Werner out there?" Wow,

This whole situation is a crap shoot. Everyone will have opinions on how to fix this but trying to be a dual father in her life at this time will not work. I remember when my son was born. It was the most emotional, mindblowing and breathtaking experience I have ever known. I too didn’t want to let him go. I was constantly trying to be around, help even when I couldn’t feed him (parts not included)

The point is that Jayme was part of this mind blowing experience, something completely different then what he has experienced in the middle east. This will take months, if not years to get over due to the raw emotional connection he developed.

Semper Fi Marine
Remember the good ol days when First Sergeant yelled… “Kohler…”
“Yes First Sergeant…”
“Is Werner out there?”

]]> By: not babys mama http://jaymekohler.com/blog/2009/05/18/slander-defined/#comment-493 not babys mama Mon, 25 May 2009 00:46:28 +0000 http://www.jaymekohler.com/?p=957#comment-493 to julia: even my latest due date was jan 23rd..that still doesnt put her real dad in the window..so hash that one for yourself.. now..im not a genious so i dont use terms in the correct way and im not out to make someone feel stupid b/c they dont have the money to go to a college and get smarter.. as far as jayme..i know he truely wants to be in her life..im smart enough to know he will hold anger in his heart forever..so although the invitation is always on the table for him to be in her life..i know he wont.. i have a big heart and forgiveness..jayme im not sure what he has.. i do still care for him and feel extremely bad for the way things went down and i have apologized profusely to him and will not do it anymore..i know him and i can not be together..yet again his harboring anger and lack of forgiveness issue..lol..im not that delusional..he taught me alot and i thank him for that but he has a lot og growing to do by the way she has plenty of people to love her including her real dad..him and i have made amends and are working great together as parents..so i do not need jayme to love her but i know he does.. to julia:

even my latest due date was jan 23rd..that still doesnt put her real dad in the window..so hash that one for yourself..

now..im not a genious so i dont use terms in the correct way and im not out to make someone feel stupid b/c they dont have the money to go to a college and get smarter..

as far as jayme..i know he truely wants to be in her life..im smart enough to know he will hold anger in his heart forever..so although the invitation is always on the table for him to be in her life..i know he wont..

i have a big heart and forgiveness..jayme im not sure what he has..

i do still care for him and feel extremely bad for the way things went down and i have apologized profusely to him and will not do it anymore..i know him and i can not be together..yet again his harboring anger and lack of forgiveness issue..lol..im not that delusional..he taught me alot and i thank him for that but he has a lot og growing to do

by the way she has plenty of people to love her including her real dad..him and i have made amends and are working great together as parents..so i do not need jayme to love her but i know he does..

]]> By: Julia http://jaymekohler.com/blog/2009/05/18/slander-defined/#comment-492 Julia Fri, 22 May 2009 22:49:50 +0000 http://www.jaymekohler.com/?p=957#comment-492 Hi there "not whatever". I have been examining all the posts that are on this site and have I made a tiny little analysis synthesized by the provided info. It seems like you are harboring malcontent towards Jayme yet you still want him to be apart of Elyse's life though he has no biological connection to her. You proceed to air out some very personal details about your relationship with him but yet you say you still want him to call and contact you whenever he feels like it. You are in a very codependent relationship. You cannot feel happy for another person's ability to move forward with his life without you, therefore you feel the need to rehash all the past drama and grasp at any straws left. Your last post says that you wish "he could leave all this bs behind and focus on the important thing my wonderful daughter". It's not his daughter. And I can tell you this right now: OBs now are not incompetent. They can tell you exactly when you are due. They have all the medical equipment and technology to do so, believe me. If you had any doubts, you should have gone and got another opinion. Doctors are not that off unless they are stupid. There is a big difference in calling people ignorant. Ignorant people choose not to learn or find out the information to make a sound and proper judgment, which spawns the saying "Ignorance is Bliss," but people who know the difference between right and wrong and have a decent education but choose to ignore common sense are just stupid. And when you choose to bash people for stating their opinions, stop for a moment and think. Are you being ignorant or just plain stupid? And don't you dare blare hormones. From what I have read so far, punctuation marks denote endings and beginnings of sentences. Capital letters begin sentences, the word just ends in a T, and ellipses have ... 3 dots. Move on with your life. I'm sure you will find someone who will love you and Elyse with ever ounce of their being. This person is not, and will never be, Jayme. Leave him alone. I don't do high drama. So dead this whole Jayme contact bit now. Hi there “not whatever”. I have been examining all the posts that are on this site and have I made a tiny little analysis synthesized by the provided info. It seems like you are harboring malcontent towards Jayme yet you still want him to be apart of Elyse’s life though he has no biological connection to her. You proceed to air out some very personal details about your relationship with him but yet you say you still want him to call and contact you whenever he feels like it. You are in a very codependent relationship. You cannot feel happy for another person’s ability to move forward with his life without you, therefore you feel the need to rehash all the past drama and grasp at any straws left. Your last post says that you wish “he could leave all this bs behind and focus on the important thing my wonderful daughter”. It’s not his daughter. And I can tell you this right now: OBs now are not incompetent. They can tell you exactly when you are due. They have all the medical equipment and technology to do so, believe me. If you had any doubts, you should have gone and got another opinion. Doctors are not that off unless they are stupid. There is a big difference in calling people ignorant. Ignorant people choose not to learn or find out the information to make a sound and proper judgment, which spawns the saying “Ignorance is Bliss,” but people who know the difference between right and wrong and have a decent education but choose to ignore common sense are just stupid. And when you choose to bash people for stating their opinions, stop for a moment and think. Are you being ignorant or just plain stupid? And don’t you dare blare hormones. From what I have read so far, punctuation marks denote endings and beginnings of sentences. Capital letters begin sentences, the word just ends in a T, and ellipses have … 3 dots. Move on with your life. I’m sure you will find someone who will love you and Elyse with ever ounce of their being. This person is not, and will never be, Jayme. Leave him alone. I don’t do high drama. So dead this whole Jayme contact bit now.

]]> By: Jo http://jaymekohler.com/blog/2009/05/18/slander-defined/#comment-491 Jo Fri, 22 May 2009 18:01:51 +0000 http://www.jaymekohler.com/?p=957#comment-491 Interesting blog. Sad to hear of two people hurting like this. On a lighter note. We'd have that thing in the water right now if Ray hadn't stole the trailer yesterday just as we got the motor ready to go. He's holding it for randsom til Tuesday over the nice long weekend. Ugh! Interesting blog. Sad to hear of two people hurting like this. On a lighter note. We’d have that thing in the water right now if Ray hadn’t stole the trailer yesterday just as we got the motor ready to go. He’s holding it for randsom til Tuesday over the nice long weekend. Ugh!

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